Human brain tends to work very smarter when it is forced to make any decision. But sometimes the decision maker in a hunch to prove himself/herself more important fails to take a good decision but either falls in a pit which leads to ruin the whole executed planning.
Many people I have seen who always try to prove themselves that whatever the decision they make or whatever they do is always right. Its appreciable to keep the fact that whatever the job/decision we take in our life must come from within and it should be appropriate. But most of the times proving ourself that we are always right is not a sign of a good attitude. Many people use to have that Me... Me... Me... character where they use to project themselves as superior among everybody is a sign of carrying a wrong kind of attitude within. It is like standing in front of a mirror and say that I am the beauty and no one else in this world is as beautiful than me. To overcome this factor one must look into the other persons who is more better to us in terms of knowledge or power. Money and health are the only factor in this world where we have to compare ourselves with those who possess it lesser than us and must be thankful to God. When it comes to attitude we must compare ourself to the one who is superior to us in terms of knowledge and power and to tap and say to ourself that I have to still learn a lot to develop myself to a better position.
Instead of always having a ME.. ME.. ME.. character one must work as a team and should use the word "WE". Team work brings lot of positive responses and ideas from everyone and will help to finish any kind of task in a smoother way. Be it in workplace or in personal life one must work as a team. For a family situation problems we must share our problems to the person whom we think trustworthy and should work together to solve the problems or to find a solution to that problem. Similarly in a workplace a head of the organisation must lead the team by taking responses and implement whichever is required and also implement our own ideas which not only create a healthy environment but also helps to finish any task perfectly and on time. A person who self appraise himself/herself without doing any fruitful actions will create a bad impression among the others and loses the respect among the team mates. One such lively example is the recent FIFA world cup where the expected team whose players were strong couldn't able to reach the finals because of hope in an individual player or a two. Its the team who passes the skills or the knowledge to others will only be able to hit the goal. The one who thinks he/she knows everything and never wanted to pass the knowledge or skills to others will shine for few days but its glow will not last long forever.
"As WE is always better than ME..... 🙂"
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