Connection between Forgive, Love, Affection and Faith

Hi Readers!!! My last two posts as you can see the first one was about F square!! Forget and Forgive and the second was Love, Affection and Faith.. I got many positive comments from the Readers and my dear friends as well.. One of my close friend Ilyas Asad putforth his valuable suggestion that both forgiveness and love are linked to each other and requested me to write a blog by merging both the topics.

He quoted based on his observation that it is connected with our

1. Mind and 

2. Heart

We are diverse as per our mind because we can't and won't come to gather as per mind, but when it comes heart we can compromise with our opposite and start expressing our love for them in spite of disagreement.

"Ultimate love is loving someone in spite of having differences"

The above quote which my friend quoted is actually the fact which everybody faces in daily life. Life without difference of opinion, behavior will be boring. The more we fight with our loved ones the more love we will have for them. What plays a major role during such situations is to forget and forgive. Love is one of the most beautiful feeling that God has bestowed on us. Its our duty to show love, respect, affection and have full faith with each other. Its okay to have fight and difference of opinions but ultimately one should know to balance and try to compromise immediately in order to live a healthy life. Difference of opinions comes when we start comparing with one another, when we start thinking about silly things like what society, relations, family will think.. Nobody even bothers to think what the person who is really showing you affection, care what he is thinking about you. People want to think based on the aspect of mind and when something goes wrong starts realizing lately oh I should have listened to my heart... Life must be lived with a mixture of happiness, sadness, angry, showing care, affection. One cannot expect only happiness to be there in his/her life. One must not get depressed when sadness is overflowing in their head. One must be ready to face everything and start preparing himself/herself to tackle all those situations and be a superhero to attain patience and try as much to solve the problems. Its normal to cry when you are sad. Its normal to get angry when there is a difference of opinion or having argument for anything. Its normal to express happiness over when something good happens to others. Its normal to even sacrifice for others happiness. The ultimate aim or goal of our life should be to make sure by today before going to sleep one should know to forgive your enemies or even the loved ones if in any case misunderstanding has happened. One should know to show love to the family members. One should know to analyse and solve all the problems before going to bed. Who knows "Tomorrow never comes"..

"Be simple.. Be Humble.. Express your feelings then and there to clarify the problems.. Don't grow it inside without expressing as it may be spread like a Cancer and ruin your life.."

What is Love, Affection and Faith?

Hi Readers...!! Good Evening.. Today's article of my blog is about Love.. The fundamental aspect of every living organisms to sustain with a greater possibility in a smooth manner is by showing love and affection towards one another. Without love life is null.. Its a natural phenomena which God has explained beautifully in his revelations that people who love others will be considered lovable and he is among us.. Right from the pre-birth stage of a child when he is in Mother's womb the mother starts taking care of her child with precautions and keeping herself away from troublesome things. The same applies to animals as well. We all living organisms have more or less similar living patterns which is like a learning process for human beings as well.. Its sad to see in reality that people have misunderstood the meaning of love and ultimately leads to destruction. The basic criteria to show love in any relationship being a relation between parent and children, husband and wife, friends, relatives, neighbors, colleagues etc., is by showing positive care and affection towards each other. The affection develops when a person has a strong faith in what he/she is going to do for the other person is right and it will not harm the other individual. He/she must put his/her entire effort in helping and showing kind nature towards each other. To do so in a positive and effective way one must first love himself/herself and must be confident that what he/she is contributing to the other person will definitely keep that person happy and fortunate enough to be like a strength for the other person.

Today I came across a very beautiful quote in WhatsApp posted by my mentor Ms. Nancy James.. "Relationships never die a natural death. They are always murdered by attitude, behavior, ego, or ignorance". That's absolutely true.

Many people in today's world fails to give their 100% in any relationship is just as they consider to give more importance to themselves and expect others to give the same importance to him/her as well.. The moment a person starts expecting from others to show him/her more importance our brain leads to negative vibes and leads to conflict and confusion.. There are few situations where other people influences in brainwashing the attitude of an individual as well.. As an individual personality we must keep our-self calm and positive in any situations and must not think of what others may think about you or expect from u and must start showing care, affection and most importantly develop faith with the people whom you are living with.. That will ultimately lead you to a healthy, prosperous and happy life.